Valentine’s Day has been changed over the centuries from the acknowledgement of certain religious martyrs into a complete frenzy of commercial exploitation. There are those who hold the concept of love in high regard, and especially respect this on Valentine’s Day. However, Valentine’s Day is not a concept that appeals to everyone, and being in the twenty first century means that sex is no longer a concept that has to be associated with love. The sins of the flesh are bountiful on a Saturday night in Hull and I’m sure this month’s Valentine’s weekend will be no exception!
Going out:
The results of an internet study two years ago showed that men felt generally much more happy and satisfied about the concept of casual sex than women do. The implications of this in modern society are very apparent. Women can be stereotyped as ‘easy’ or ‘sluttish’ whereas men are depicted as ‘studs’ or ‘Casanovas’. Looking at this in a Darwinian respect, it makes sense for men to sleep with as many women a possible as we are biologically constructed to spread as much of our seed as possible. For women, the quality of the seed spread surpasses the need for quantity. We are now in the 21st century. Casual sex is more acceptable and more established than ever. In the past, all anyone had to worry about was their reputation. Now, the risks of STIs, pregnancy and even rape have to be considered. ‘No means no’ was an anti-date-rape slogan that was established with the rise of Rohypnol use in night clubs. Casual sex doesn’t have to be a bad thing. As long as protection is used and both parties are willing and consenting, there should be no social stigma associated with it. Sex reduces stress levels, is good for the immune system and burns 170 calories an hour. There are no tricks of the trade for finding casual sex, just get out there, socialise with like minded people and stay safe!
How to impress:
Casual sex isn’t right for everyone, but if you are sexually active and not in a relationship, think about the following when you’re next on the town:
1) Be safe. I cannot stress enough how important contraceptives are! Sex is cleaner with a packaged wiener!
2) Be sensible. There might not be a specific time or a place, but keep it out of the public’s way.
3) Be inhibited. Alcohol can play funny tricks on the mind. Make sure casual sex is consensual and what you both want.
4) Be discreet. Casual sex is perfectly healthy, but your partner doesn’t need to see themselves in your list of conquests on Facebook.
5) Think about your needs. Is casual sex right for you? Remember, it’s ok to say no. Visit www.areyouthinking.co.uk for more details.
L. Barr & A.Talbot
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