“I’ve recently moved into the Lawns to start at the University of Hull. Even though I am enjoying the constant party atmosphere, don’t get me wrong, I do like a drink and a party, I am worried about the spread of sexual diseases within the student body. I don’t sleep around, but what if I sleep with someone who does? Should I avoid sex altogether?”
Anonymous
The Catholic Archbishop of Mozambique, Francisco Chimoio, says that the best way to avoid HIV/AIDS is through sexual abstinence. But, he also said “I know that there are two countries in Europe … making condoms with the [AIDS] virus, on purpose”. However, condoms displaying the European CE mark meet high safety standards, and are the best alternative for those of us not partaking in sexual abstinence. As far back as ancient Greece, condoms have been used throughout history to prevent pregnancy, often made of linen or sometimes even lamb intestine. Nowadays condoms are made of latex and help to prevent the spread of sexually transmitted diseases as well as pregnancy. As some infections or diseases have little or no symptoms, condoms offer the best protection for peace of mind.
Also, there is the risk of pregnancy! To me babies are not cute, pretty or sweet – they are smelly, noisy monkeys. Using a condom is one of the most effective ways of stopping pregnancy, as it presents a physical barrier to the sperm. In addition there are other options such as the pill or the implant, which can be used alongside condoms. Condoms produce no side effects unless you are allergic to latex, in which case latex-free condoms are also available. Finally, good and safe sex is based on respect and trust, so if you have any qualms or issues don’t be afraid to talk to your partner.
Daniel Carlin